Boxer and Big Brother celebrity Angel McKenzie on S&M:
“Sadomasochism,” she confessed. “I love it. Physical pain doesn’t bother me. You can stab me in the heart and I won’t feel it.”
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Did Rebecca Bargy Intentionally Kill James Bargy?
Rebecca and James Bargy appear to have had some sort of Femdom / BDSM relationship and engaged in some pretty heavy sadomasochistic scenes. During one of which he died.
Leaving someone alone in bondage is so incredibly wrongheaded that it seems almost a crime against tops and bottoms that do play safely. Leaving a submissive man alone with his breathing restricted does seem criminally negligible to me. Even if the bottom consents to a scenario that risky the top should never agree.
Rebecca Bargy is probably going to have a tough time winning sympathy from the jury. Her husband died while she was meeting a lover. Perhaps cuckoldry was part of their kink life.
She also stated to people that she wanted to leave him. I’m not suggested that the women intentionally killed her spouse. Again, one can only imagine what the jurors think.
James Bargy was found wearing women’s lingerie, lying on his stomach with his arms and legs tied behind his back. He also had a ball gag in his mouth, which was duct-taped shut, and an ace bandage wrapped around his head exposing only his nostrils.
Lingerie Fetishist Buys Used Panties
Fetishes Can Be Profitable
Lingerie fetishists have been buying and collecting women’s panties for a very, very long time.
From an article and interview with a young man who collects the used lingerie of young Malaysian women:
“Looking for Malay women’s used lingerie… don’t worry… just find it sexy when it’s from a Malay woman… willing to pay well for it… do contact me if any malay women are interested.”
Sadist Allowed Consent as Defence
BDSM & Sex Crime
Richard Jeffrey Barker, a New Zealand sadist, who scarred a couple of teenage girls has his conviction reversed.
In the original trial:
… Judge Kevin Phillips said Barker, in his 50s, could not use the defence of consent, principally because of the girls’ young age but also because the scars would be semi-permanent and because the 17-year-old had taken nitrous oxide gas.
Barker appealed his convictions on the sole ground that Judge Phillips had wrongly withdrawn the defence of consent on public policy grounds.
In findings released today, Appeal Court Justices Susan Glazebrook, Grant Hammond and Mark O’Regan ruled that because Barker did not intend to seriously injure his victims, consent was available as a defence.
Sadomasochist has convictions quashed
I don’t think intent would work in an American court (not that I’m qualified to judge - just a subjective feeling about the American criminal justice system).
Punish Me, Mistress Zainab!
BDSM in Popular Culture
As EastEnders’ Zainab Masood, Nina Wadia is a an assertive woman. This has won her fanmail from submissive men with overheated imaginations all over the world.
But star Nina Wadia, 40, is amazed at the mail she gets from kinky fans worldwide wanting her to act as dominatrix for them.
Nina, who has played feisty catering company chief Zainab for nearly two years, said: “I get a number of letters from Germany and America.
EastEnder Nina Wadia: My kinky fans want me to be a dominatrix
Kink.com's Government Subsidy
Fetishes Can Be Profitable
California has given a little more than $46,000 to Kink.com the San Francisco based fetish entertainment company. Really it isn’t that much money and doesn’t compare to subsidies that have been given to companies that make poisons and weapons.
I’d rather Kink.com give the money back for purely pragmatic reasons. This is the kind of government spending that Republicans can point to with glee and use to horrify the ordinary majority of voters. It isn’t as if Kink.com really needs the handout.
California’s government has been subsidizing torture-based pornography. The subsidy has been routed through the California Employment Training Panel (ETP), an agency set up to make state businesses more competitive with foreign and out-of-state ones by paying contractors who train in-state workers. Kink.com, famous to San Franciscans as the pornographer that not long ago bought the massive former Armory building in the Mission District, received its training through the Bay Area Video Coalition, a Mission nonprofit that provides classes in video and multimedia technology.
Is government spending obscene? Well, it paid to train S&M filmmakers.
Daniel Riedel of Kink.com said the company plans to fight to retain the subsidy.
Dominatrix Had Tory Party Clients
Professional Dominatrices
Miss Whiplash - Mistress Pain
Natalie Rowe was a professional dominatrix whose masochist clients included Tory politicians. The Tories paid her to:
“It’s time the truth was told about some of the men who could end up running the country. Men who have been on all fours before me, crying like babies, taking massive amounts of drugs as I whip them senseless.”
And:
“I had them barking like dogs and begging for mercy”
And the former Miss Whiplash is planning to tell all.
The Tory Party is more or less the equivalent of America’s Republican Party. Like Republicans the Tories claim to support prudish values and what they conceive of as moral purity. Like many a televangelist they don’t necessarily practice what they preach.
The former ProDomme’s revelations will probably shatter a few political careers.
Tory scandal: Vice madam to name four top Tories in tell-all book
Gloria Vanderbilt's Obsession
BDSM in Popular Culture, Professional Dominatrices
Obsession: An Erotic Tale
Gloria Vanderbilt was once one of the most famous women in the world. The Vanderbilt’s are a family of old money, members of what was once known as the 400. But that was back in the earlier part of the century when being a debutant, socialite - the daughter of a family with old money - had cachet that has since been lost to pop singers, movie stars and serial killers.
Indeed back in the 1970s Vanderbilt sought fresh fame by giving her name to a line of jeans.
Now Gloria Vanderbilt has written a novel of a women who learns of her dead husband’s involvement with a professional dominatrix, Obsession.
The sexually explicit book, which is to be published in June, has already sent shock waves through the reserved upper echelons of New York society after passages were leaked to a New York tabloid. The leaks showed that Vanderbilt’s prose spares no one’s blushes in its explicit descriptions of kinky sex. Andrea Peyser, a columnist at the New York Post who got hold of the 143-page tome, breathlessly called it “pure, elegant, unadulterated smut” - before reassuring readers that the book was light enough to be “easily read with one hand”.
Socialite, 85, shocks New York with sex novel
Summary of Obsession:
From Gloria Vanderbilt comes a story of erotic obsession, told in tandem. Priscilla Bingham was one half of the perfect elite New York couple until her beloved husband P.J. Talbot unexpectedly died in the middle of their tenth wedding anniversary celebration. Years later, Pris stumbles upon a collection of letters among Talbot’s papers. There - on the most exquisite paper, in the most exquisite detail - is Pris’ undoing. The letters are from Talbot’s ‘Queen Bea’, his treasured mistress/dominatrix who ‘organizes his erotica’ and has spared no detail of it (or her disdain for ‘Wife’) in her correspondence. From the moment she discovers Bea, Pris is obsessed with her, with Talbot, with their sex. And her obsession must be satiated.
Will ProDommes be among Obsession’s first buyers: hoping for a flattering presentation of their profession?
Will Obsession’s descriptions of consensual sadomasochistic sex reinforce all the clichés and stereotypes the American public has about BDSM?
A Visit with Kink.com
Fetishes Can Be Profitable
An examination of the place where Kink.com makes all those kinky pornographic films:
The antiques in the Armory’s storage room however, Roche explains, are real enough. Row after row of leather-covered, ornate torture items - none of them used to actually torture, of course - create a scene even the Marquis de Sade would envy. On one shelf sits a cage shaped like a kneeling body, with only the head left free. In another corner a giant hamster wheel, which performers use with a trough for water bondage, tempts visitors to climb in and go for a roll.
Article with photos: Bondage Sets and Miniskirts on a Tour of Kink’s Armory.
Call to Protect Innocent Kinky Folk in Scotland Rejected
Fetish and the Law
Patrick Harvie, a member of Scotland’s parliament, wanted to adjust current Scottish law to ensure that men and women engaging in consensual BDSM weren’t arrested as sex criminals.
However, he dropped a bid to change the law after Justice Secretary Kenny MacAskill and other MSPs said lifting the threat of prosecution could provide a loophole for those charged with domestic abuse and sex crimes.
Then write the law intelligently and realistically. I suspect that it is discomfort with kink and fetish than worry about abused spouse that is at work here.
MSP calls for fear of prosecution to be lifted for participants in bondage
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